Saturday, January 26, 2013

Not Quite Who I Am

Our reputation, is that who we are?
The desire to maintain our reputation prevent us from being who we are. Reputation doesn't define us. What truly defines us is what we really are but it seems like nobody knows that but ourselves. We have to set these insecurities away. These are the things that people see you as but not who you really are. Some people devote their energies in pursuit of building a good reputation. In a society like ours, it is very hard to gain and quite easy to lose. People look up to you when you have a good name. It is also a reality that all the years of hard work to maintain a good reputation, in just one fatal mistake, it can change in a blink of an eye. Thinking not to disgrace our reputation, we take caution in every move we make, making sure nothing changes, causing us to be something we're not quite are. Honestly, we do this everyday we just don't realize it anymore. How do we know? Well, we will know if it seems like we act differently in different places like at home or in school. A different reputation at home and a different one for school too. Fairly, it starts to feel like a burden sometimes. We seem to be like a puppet controlled by the reputation that we have. These strings finally come off when nobody's looking. 

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Life is kinda built on the reputation we have. If it isn't that good then things don't really go as well as we hope it should. But it depends on how we handle it. If our reputation is good then things are bound to be good but not all the time. But again, it can change. We can never say. But to sum it up, we shouldn't let our reputation rule us nor let it dictate us on what to do. But what we are and who we want to be have a fine line between them. Knowing who we really are and sticking to it will eventually make us feel at peace with ourselves.

Me?

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Sometimes it gets too hard that 
you start to lose yourself.

Saturday, January 5, 2013

Waiting For My Sun To Shine


Problems, struggles, painful experiences and other negative emotions make some days feel like rainy days. I figure, no one is spared of these. Everyone goes through this ‘unpleasant’ stage in life. It is part of life’s journey. When things are sinking and we feel like we are drowning with life’s ocean of challenges, we should have faith that hope is just around the corner. We just need to dig deeper and look at every nook and cranny to find it. The storms that we are in is just a phase in our lives that will pass. These things come unexpected. Nobody expects these problems to come. They’re the least we need in life but inevitably, they haunt us wherever we go. Honestly, they are hard to conquer but it would take the warrior in us to overcome them. All these things happen for a reason. We all experienced them and for a few, light never came. But I could honestly say that these moments are one of the things we would never ever  forget… and that these challenges changed us into someone better… and stronger.

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What is important is there is always sunlight after the rain. Somehow somewhere… that glimmer of hope will twinkle during the dark moments of our life. Though some things take time to heal, even if it may take forever, it will definitely come.While we're waiting for our sun to shine we have to stay strong. Light will come.  Hope will be there to pick us up and bring things together again. All we need to do is wait.

Waiting.. Hoping...

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The road may be bumpy now but the sun will shine in no time. All you need to do is wait and hope.

Friday, January 4, 2013

Three Words To Stand On

Spoken or written words usually come and go.  Some would mean nothing and some would mean everything.  There are words that we usually take for granted but there are also words that mean the whole world to us.  Personally, I believe that there are three words we use to stand on.
What are these these words, you might ask? These words can keep some of us strong and hard as a rock.  Sometimes they can leave us with nothing.. literally nothing. Honestly the thought of these words can make us make up crazy things to either sustain them or just lose them. All we need to know is that the outcome of these words are dynamic. It may be good or bad. Good in a way that they can be source of happiness or inspiration. Bad in a way that they can break the person or possibly change a person’s whole being. These words should be used carefully for they can greatly affect a person’s emotional side.  Nowadays, these words are said with no care at all. Some say them sincerely and some don't. We can't really say which is which now that most people take these words for granted. Like they're just plain words, they're not. They stick like super glue to a person's mind – and heart - especially to a person who means a lot to you. That's not plain at all. Normal words don't really stick that much.  They would sometimes just exit the other way once they enter the other. Nonetheless, there are words that can linger enough and definitely, these four words are one of them.

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These words are far greater than what they seem. They are the start and end to every relationship. What are these words? The words that we stand on..
I ---- you. Your words. Your choice. 

Stuck Like Glue

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The words you choose to say sticks like glue to the 
person who hears.