In The Limbo

Who among us could stand up and say that she has never made a mistake? I am quite sure, no one. I'm quite sure all of us has committed some false steps. In our lifetime,  we may have made one or two or even more mistakes; some intentionally  and others unintentionally. Most of the times, I bet, that these instances are something that we wished we had never done.  We feel that they seem so wrong, that we have messed up so much. We are hounded by guilt, and feel that there is no way out. However, that should not be the case. Life has never been perfect since the fall of our first parents. We should always remember that we don't have here a bed of roses. God has allowed us to fall in order for us to learn and become a better and stronger person.  Yes, some would say that it is always easier said than done but we just have to be strong. We should not allow the guilt to drown us and stop us from continuing our lives. We should remember that nothing happens by accident. Every thing happens for a reason, for a purpose. What really matters is not on the number of times that we have fallen but rather on the number of times that we have tried to get up from those falls. The mistakes that we may have committed in our lives shape the person that we are right now. How we dealt with them and overcome them strengthen our character and make us better equipped to face more challenges in our lives. We should not look at the negative side of the errors that we may have done. We should not allow them to control us, to hamper our struggle to become better. We should move on, continue our journey, this time wiser than before. 

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We should not linger on the past that we can not change any more. We should look forward and focus on the things that we can still change, the future. It is true that the past mistakes that we have done may have hurt us so much and left a scar in our hearts. However, the choice is in our hands either that we run from it or learn from it. We should not be afraid to make mistakes. The worst mistake that we can actually  make is never to have tried. We should remember that there will always be something good that comes out from the bad, though  it might take time before we finally realize it.